Richard O'Toole, age 66 of Bottineau formerly of Upham, passed away on Thursday, September 3, 2026 at his home in Bottineau. His funeral will be held on Thursday, September 10, 2026 at 10:00 am at the New Hope Lutheran Church in Upham. Visitation will be on Wednesday from 5:00 pm until 7:00 pm at the Nero Funeral Home in Bottineau. Burial with military honors will be at the North Dakota Veterans Cemetery in Mandan on Thursday, September 10, 2026 at 3:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Upham community organizations or clubs, in honor of Rich's generous spirit and commitment to his community.

Rich, son of Richard and Penny O'Toole, was born August 21, 1960 in New York. He grew up in Fort Worth, Texas and graduated from Nolan High School. After high school he served in the U.S. Air Force from 1980 to 1995. After retiring from the U.S. Air Force, he spent several years working in jobs that were related to one of his passions, cars. He later returned to serve at the Minot Air Force base as a civilian, until retiring.

While in the Air Force Rich met the love of his life, Helen Goldschmidt. They married in 1981 and together, they built a family and life filled with love, laughter, and adventure. They raised two children, Mike and Mindy. Rich’s service in the U.S. Air Force provided his family the opportunity of traveling and experiencing many adventures. Exploring castles in Europe, the monuments and memorials in Washington D.C., and the beauty of the ND countryside. Rich provided his family a lifetime of memories and experiences that will forever be cherished.

An active member of the New Hope Lutheran Church and the Upham 55+ club, Rich was known for his gift of conversation and uplifting spirit. He had a knack for storytelling, offering advice, and listening, which made everyone feel like a friend.

Rich was an avid outdoorsman, finding joy in camping, fishing, and hunting, as well as riding his Harley down the open country roads. His happiest moments were spent with his family and friends, making memories that will be cherished forever.

Rich was a man whose life was a testament to love, service, and adventure.

He is survived by his devoted wife of 45 years, Helen; children, Michael (Kayla) and Melinda; sister Deana. Rich's legacy lives on in his three treasured grandchildren: Tyler, Alex, and Austin. He also leaves behind a host of dear friends and extended family.

Rich was preceded in death by his parents, Richard and Penny (Karr) O’Toole.

The O'Toole family extends their heartfelt gratitude to everyone who shared their lives with Rich and for the compassion shown during his courageous battle this past year. He will be deeply missed but forever remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him.